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James 5:7-12
A lot of your life you spend waiting. As a little kid, I waited all my life to start school, then I couldn’t wait until I got out of school, then I couldn’t wait to fall in love, then I couldn’t wait to get married, … we spend a lot of our lives waiting. There are many things in life that test our patience: freeways, supermarket lines, doctor’s offices, irritating people. We hate to wait.
We are the Now Generation. We do not like to wait. Have you noticed that the more expensive the restaurant the longer you wait? There are actually five different waits when you go to a restaurant. You wait to get a seat, then you wait to get the menu, then you wait to order, then you wait to get the food back, then you wait for the bill. And they have the audacity to call that guy the waiter!!!
We’re going to look at what James has to say on How do you develop patience. You need patience in every area of your life. In this passage, James uses the word “patience” or “perseverance” six times. He uses three different illustrations to teach us when to be patient, why be patient, and how to be patient.
I. WHEN SHOULD I BE PATIENT?
James isn’t saying we have to be patient all the time but there are three special times when you need that extra dose of patience:
1. When circumstances are uncontrollable
Have you figured out that a lot of life is beyond your control? You cannot keep your thumb on everything. James uses a farmer as an example of when circumstances are uncontrollable. v. 7 “Be patient then brothers, until the Lord’s coming. See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its valuable crop and how patient he is …” Don’t go into farming unless you’ve got patience. Part of the job description of being a farmer is you do a lot of waiting: waiting to till, waiting to plant, waiting to prune… there are a lot of factors in waiting. Yet more than the factors of waiting on things to do are the factors that the farmer has no control over — weather, rain, heat, the economy, labor practices… If you have a lot of faith you can be a farmer but if you don’t have a lot of faith don’t be a farmer, because it takes patience. You deal with a lot of uncontrollable factors — circumstances — in life.
Have you noticed that even when we realize a situation is beyond our control, we still try to control it? How do we do that? By worrying. We think that worry will control a situation. To worry about something you can’t change is useless. We need to have patience in uncontrollable circumstances.
2. When people are unchangeable
When people won’t change. When they won’t make a difference. He gives an example of the prophets. “As an example of patience in the face of suffering, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord.” What was the duty of prophets? To help people change, bring them back to God, to be different in their behavior. Have you noticed that people resist change? When you make any little tiny suggestion, they resist you!
Do you have anybody in your life right now who refuses to change? Do you know how difficult it is to live with that kind of person? We need patience with people. James says, have patience.
James says you need to be patient when circumstances are uncontrollable and when people are unchangeable and won’t cooperate with us.
3. When problems are unexplainable
Life is not fair! That is true. God never said it would be fair. A lot of things in life just don’t make sense. Maybe we’ll never understand on this side of heaven. Job didn’t understand. In all of that unexplained problem, Job maintained his faith. Sometimes we just can’t figure out our problems.
When circumstances are uncontrollable, when people are unchangeable, and when problems are unexplainable you really need patience. Why?
II. WHY SHOULD I BE PATIENT?
1. Because God is in control
“Be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s coming is near.” v. 8. Three times in this passage, James says, the Lord’s coming is near, Jesus is coming back. That is the ultimate proof that God is in control. Nothing can stop it. The Bible talks more about Jesus’ second coming — when He comes back to judge the world — than it does about His first coming.
Job persevered. God’s timing is perfect, He’s never late. Some of you are experiencing a real delay right now but God’s delays never thwart His purpose.
2. God rewards patience.
v. 11a “As you know, we consider blessed those who have persevered.” Circle “blessed”. The second half of Job’s life was more blessed than the first half. God doubled everything he had. It pays to be patient. There are all kinds of rewards. Your character grows, you get along with people better, you’re happier, and you reach your goals. There are lots of benefits of being patient. God rewards it. You’ll be honored by others. They’ll say, “He’s a patient person.”
James says, the next time someone criticizes you, before you strike back, think about this, is it worth giving up the reward I’m going to have in heaven? I’m going to enjoy that a whole lot longer than the temporary pleasure of revenge.
You need to be patient because God is in control and He’s going to reward patience.
3. Because God is working things out
God says, “Be patient because I’m working things out.” While I am waiting, God is working. You need to remember that! Your hands may be tied and the situation may be uncontrollable but it is not uncontrollable in God’s viewpoint.
In advance, thank God because He’s working things out. He gives the illustration of the farmer. When the farmer plants the seed, he’s waiting for that seed. While he’s waiting, God is working behind the scenes to cause that plant to sprout. He’s creating the conditions so at the right time, in the right way there will be a harvest. The farmer waits, God works.
Philippians 2;13 “God is at work within you.” Maybe you can’t see it, but He is. Be patient. I don’t know what kind of problem you have this week, but regardless of the problem you’re going through (financial, relational, health) God is working in that problem. Be patient and trust Him.
III. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO BE DOING WHILE I’M WAITING ON GOD?
1. Wait expectantly
I must expect a harvest. I must believe that it is inevitable, that I’ve done the right thing. We get ready for the answer in advance.
Psalm 130:5 (LB) “… I wait expectantly, trusting God to help, for He has promised.” Circle “expectantly”. What are you waiting for from God? Maybe to heal a long term illness, or to transform your marriage? or to reverse your financial problems? or for God to reach your teenagers for Christ? Do you really expect Him to do that? The Bible says, “According to your faith it will be done unto you.”
A lot of times when I’m waiting on God, He’s really waiting on me. He was ready to give the answer a long time ago but I wasn’t ready to receive it. He’s saying, “Grow up! Get some spiritual depth in your life. I want to bless your life but you can’t handle the blessing I want to pour on you. Waiting is a time to get ready. Prepare.
Jesus waited thirty years before he began his ministry. Thirty years of preparation and he accomplished more in three years than we would in a lifetime.
Isaiah 49:23 “The Lord says … No one who waits for my help will be disappointed.”
2. Wait quietly
James points out the fact that we have a tendency to run off at the mouth when we’re irritated, when we’re tense, when we’re under pressure, when things aren’t going our way and things aren’t under our control. James warns us of two things to avoid.
1. “Don’t grumble against each other, brothers, or you will be judged.” Why does he talk about grumbling right in the middle of patience? It’s hard to be quiet when you’re frustrated. When you’re frustrated, you want everybody to know about it.
v. 12 “Above all, my brothers, don’t swear.” Does waiting ever tempt you to swear? Sometimes when people get frustrated they feel like cussing.
Lamentations 3:26 “It is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.” Circle “quietly”. Hab. 2:3 “These things won’t happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fulfilled. If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely come to pass. Just be patient! They will not be overdue a single day!” Do you have a dream, a goal in life, a vision that God’s given you? God says it will be right on target, at the right time, in the right way.
You wait expectantly and you wait quietly.
3. Wait confidently
Job never lost his confidence in all that he did. When the outlook is bad, you look up. Micah 7:7 “I will wait confidently for God.” How do you do that? You have hope. Hope is Holding On Praying Expectantly — HOPE.
When you’ve got a problem that’s unexplainable, a person who is unchangeable, a circumstance that is uncontrollable then wait confidently. God is working.
How do you wait confidently? Sit still. Don’t get nervous, anxious. You don’t take matters into your own hands and work things out. Ps. 37:7 “Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him to act.”
Where do you need to have patience today?
Do you have an uncontrollable circumstance in your life right now?
What do you do when you have these kinds of things?
Remember what God has said in James. God is in control. It may be out of my control, but it’s not out of God’s control. Nothing is beyond His power and His purpose for my life is greater than the problem I’m experiencing right now. God will reward your patience.
God is working behind the scenes for a purpose.
Anticipate!!!
Bishop Bryan Strickland
